ROMANCE | RELATIONSHIP ADVICE | GHOSTING
When Ghosting Might Be The Best Thing He’ll Do For You
Before you start throwing food, rocks or shade, hear me out.
Ghosting is gutless.
Ghosting can be cruel — especially if you thought you were in a committed relationship.
But ghosting might end up being the best thing he’ll ever do for you. Let me tell you why.
Ghosting is described as rejection without closure. It’s when a friend, lover or even partner drops out of your life without an explanation. Texts aren’t answered. Social media gets blocked or goes silent. It hurts.
Reddit, Twitter and even Medium is filled with the people wondering what if. Sleepless nights are spent crying and rehashing every look and conversation, trying to work out what they did wrong.
Sit back, pour yourself a glass of your best party drink and repeat after me …
“I did nothing wrong.”
“I deserve better.”
“He doesn’t deserve me.”
Real relationships take hard work and commitment. They are also easy. No awkward silences and no sense of wondering where it will lead.
